(rather than enforcing a victory/having the adversary lose).
(rather than on the process, the person of the adversary, or his/her views).
(which is to say it does not ignore or frustrate the process, but is rather cooperative, leading to adequate and constructive contributions).
(which is to say no untruths, no concealing of information, no artifice and no undue pressure, abuse, etc.).
(which is to say: an outcome that you could also live with if you were the adversary).